Monday, June 06, 2011

really cupid?????

as most of you guys know (or don't) i became single sometime in 09....i took some time off from the dating scene to focus on me....now that i have attempted to re-join the dating scene, i see why i left....my friend blombie introduced me to a singles website called okcupid...hmm ok i'll give it a whirl....it can't hurt right? (so i thought)...so i set up my profile and begin to answer questions in hopes that a "match" might be sent my way....so far it's been ok....but there's always one right? makes me wonder if i have something invisible tattooed to my forehead...but i digress...so i end up chatting with someone i'll call...willy wonka.....and no-this ain't the one from the movie...the conversation started out ok...you know, getting the basics out of the way...but i started to notice that every other question from him was regarding sex or some variation of the topic....umm o-o-ka-a-ay....if i wanted this topic of conversation i could always hop on adult friendfinder....it's these types of conversations that make me want to stay single...smh....i get that sex crosses a man's mind repeatedly during the day but this was overkill in my mind...some of his questions included: are you shaved?; do you squirt?; do you like oral?, yeah i'm not going to pollute your poor brain with anymore...needless to say i lost intrest in him really fast but being the polite person i am, i have yet to "officially" say dude, you're creeping me out-leave me the h*ll alone lol....i could always go the passive route and just ignore him (since i mistakenly gave him my # so we could text)...who knows my 2 readers?? so now i'm trying to decide if i want to erase my profile from the site or not....decisons, decisions....